“We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will.”--Chuck Palahniuk
I wish that my Dad had lived forever. But he didn't. No one can live in their bodies forever. What's important is that (as my Dad did) you live a beautiful life and that you find a way to live on. As the Buddha said, "Fashion your life as a garland of beautiful deeds". My Dad was all about the good deeds. That's how he showed his love for us. He might not have often said sentimental things to us, but he showed his love for us in his actions.
I wish that he was here physically to celebrate his birthday with us. But he is here in spirit with us. He lives on in my Mom, me, my sister, and his three beautiful grandchildren. He lives in on the hearts of all of us who loved him.
Today to remember what would have been my Dad's 64th birthday, we released some balloons. I hope they found you in heaven Daddy. And I hope that you know how much we all love and miss you.
I just found your blog. I am very sorry in the loss of your father. I lost both my younger brother and father in 2009 and it is hard. But they do live on through our children. Some of their quirks and habits our kids pick up and that reminder of our loved ones is always there.
ReplyDeleteI wish you Peace & Blessings....
Looking forward in following your blog.
AlliXOXO
Thank Alli for your kind comments. I'm sorry for your losses as well. My Dad passed away November 27th 2009.
ReplyDeleteI am following your blog now too :-)